The Bottom Line
Talking is just talking -- if you want to overcome the obstacles, get moving today!
Talking about the issues you have with someone else is a great way to come up with some solutions, but in the end, talking is just talking. If you want to overcome the obstacles that are in your paths, you need to get moving already! Time won't wait for you to figure out the perfect, fool proof plan. You just need to move forward with whatever you've come up with -- as imperfect as it may be. Making an effort shows you care, and shows this person that they are important to you.